Wednesday, October 13, 2010

Making It Work #3 10 13 2010

I am not single. I am married but we are separated. I will not pretend nor act like I am single. I am focusing entirely on resolving the issues that led to this separation. But what if it was not me? What if I am just being blamed for it because there is no one else to blame? Am I a scapegoat? I can not express how horrible this makes me feel. But I will still resolve the issues that I am being blamed for

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  1. Ok just my 2 cents my friend and know that I pray you gys work this out as it's what you want so badly but, how do you resolve issues that you aren't guilty of ????? Blamin you is easy but how do you fix what you did not do ?????/

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  2. I am not completely sure. But I am determined to find a way to. It may not be the RIGHT solution, but it may be the right solution to get to a point where we can be together, and work together on the RIGHT solution with out question of if there will be a 'together.'

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  3. How do you know he's not guilty of them when you don't know the situation..and if you actually know the situation..then it's not my fault, when a person has had enough, they've had enough. i don't know how someone can rebuild trust thats been completely shattered relationship wise. though i've said i'd keep an open mind to whatever possibilities.

    btw..if you're gonna blog ..DEAR.. try to put the whole story or not at all..there's no sugar coating needed..unless you don't want others to know what is what. I'm not a villain..just someone who's tired of bs.

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